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Advice: My future sister-in-law just got divorced. How can I disinvite her to my wedding?
New York Times: 'Shortly after my engagement, I asked [her] to be a bridesmaid.'

The number one sign your marriage will last, according to an expert
It has nothing to do with passion.

How to cope when you’re sharing a home with your soon-to-be ex-spouse
Selling up or moving out straight away isn't always possible.

My husband was perfect in every way – except in the bedroom. It broke our marriage
Telegraph: Many couples struggle with a sexual mismatch. For some, it's a deal breaker.

The Ex-Files: I want to revalue our home before a Family Court hearing and have my child give evidence too
OPINION: The court discourages involving children in disputes, to protect their welfare.

Why matchmakers are conflicted about the new rom-com about matchmakers
Celine Song's new film Materialists has sparked debate among real-life matchmakers.

‘I’ve given up asking’: Why so many midlifers are struggling with sexless marriages
Telegraph: "Sex became perfunctory... it seemed like a favour she was bestowing upon me."

Advice: My partner will only sleep with me if I buy her gifts. Am I being used?
Telegraph: Is a transactional relationship ever OK? It's complicated, says Rachel Johnson.

How to divorce well: Kiwi lawyer on how to avoid mistakes many couples make
Is it possible to have a tidy divorce? Leading barrister Sharon Chandra explains how.

Advice: My best friend ghosted me, and I’m devastated. Help!
New York Times: "I have reached out to her many times, but she hasn't responded."

Varsha Anjali: Sabrina Carpenter and the rage over the sexual woman
OPINION: This is a case of projection.

'Great respect': Sacha Baron Cohen and Isla Fisher officially divorced
The pair confirmed the news on social media.

'Far out, she's gorgeous': All Black and doctor share romantic proposal
Brad Weber and his fiancee plan to wed in New Zealand.

Is Instagram the new celebrity dating app?
Kyle Kuzma's Instagram message to Winnie Harlow led to their engagement in 2020.

We fell in love over drinks. Could our relationship survive when I went sober?
Telegraph: How do you navigate a marriage after one partner quits drinking?

After years of his lying about drinking, how do I trust my husband again?
Washington Post: Navigating trust when addiction strains your marriage.

What Kiwis get wrong about wills, according to a family lawyer
Around 50% of Kiwis don't have a will. Here's why you should.

Are dating apps bad for your mental health?
'People are constantly looking for validation and a dopamine rush that doesn't happen.'

Divorce lawyer describes common trends that lead to Kiwi couples splitting
Barrister Sharon Chandra discusses what she observes NZ couples doing repeatedly.

Nobody saw our divorce coming – not even me
Telegraph: "We were the family that others admired ... the truth was more complicated."

Jay-Jay Feeney on romance, long-distance love and future plans
The radio legend reveals she and her boyfriend, Minou, are talking about marriage.