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Shelling out thousands to find the perfect mate
The average woman would date dozens of men and spend thousands of dollars before finding Mr Right, according to a Kiwi dating expert.

Disciplinary action
An incident at a cafe has Scott Kara wondering - what do you do when someone else tells off your kid?

Divorce total slides to its lowest in 20 years
The number of divorces in New Zealand has dropped to a 20-year low, Family Court figures show.

Lots of takers for dinner with Dan
He broke up with his girlfriend, but was determined not to waste his $200 mystery bus tour and dinner for two.

Forward thinking: A send-off fit for a Captain
He was prepared to steer his boat into any weather, ride his Harley fast and drive his Corvette faster. I never knew the guy, but it's clear he was a legend - and a hoot.

Low divorce rate not a sign of happy marriages - expert
A low divorce rate shows Kiwis avoid marriage unless they're truly committed, a relationship counsellor said.

Sex-addict study solicits adulterers
Researchers want to hear from serial sex cheats and others with trouser-trouble, to deepen their understanding of what they call "hypersexuality".

A bit on the side
Modern life presents numerous ways to cheat: texts, direct messages, or plain, old-fashioned affairs. But is infidelity really betrayal? Radical couples therapist Esther Perel says it might be exactly what your relationship needs.

Polygamists 'breeding for cash'
The burqa is getting all the attention in the debate over Muslims in France. But another controversial tradition among some immigrants is less noticed and far more widespread.

More Kiwi couples forgoing drawn-out engagements
Long engagements are out as an increasing number of Kiwis are rushing to say "I do" after three months or less.

Painful truth for women
It may be a bitter pill for women to swallow, but men handle pain better than the fairer sex, a leading expert says.

Multi-tasking doulas
Some 'doulas' - women who provide personal support during childbirth are now also offering their services during abortions, writes Dita De Boni.

<i>Shortland Street</i>'s gay jibes anger Tauranga residents
A Shortland Street episode which portrayed Tauranga as being intolerant of gay people has infuriated tourism bosses and residents.

Jesse James spotted without wedding ring
The motorcycle entrepreneur has reportedly told friends he knows his marriage to Sandra Bullock is over.

Matt Damon and wife expecting third baby
The Bourne Ultimatum actor and his wife Luciana already have two daughters together.

How to speed-date
As a means of launching a new dating website, its creators staged a speed dating evening in Auckland. Alan Perrott went along to learn how to find a date under the stopwatch.

Babies left to cry can suffer brain damage, warns parenting guru
When your baby starts to cry, should you rush to its aid or leave it alone for a while first?

When two become one
It's official, my wife and I have now become one. We are joined in holy wedlock, by law - and now, by a hyphen.

A big month for genes
It is not a completely far-out scenario that the genetic sequence of all newborn babies may one day be collected by default, writes Dita De Boni.

<i>Deborah Hill Cone:</i> Divorce - it's bigger than the law
Lawyers are lawyers and although they can be extremely useful, their training to look at the dark side of every transaction does not help you move towards the light.

Cheats' site a popular affair
A website designed to help people have extra-marital affairs arrives in New Zealand this month.

Moaning modern mums?
Dita De Boni largely agrees with columnist Jenny Dillon's argument that working mothers have never had it so good.